Florida is such a stressful place for me that even the thought of living there induces panic attacks. Literally.
In Motion
I've been gone for a while - almost two years. I'm not writing to say that I'm back because the reality is I probably won't be writing here with any regularity for a while. But I am still here.
Max: LGBTQ+ Cult?
A few days ago, user "Max" replied to a comment made by Brendan Birth on my post about Q: What do I do if Iโm transphobic and homophobic? / As a Christian believer, will God disown me if I transition fromย MTF? Max's comment makes a few claims and cites scripture. I was setting up to reply to Max in another comment, but decided this is a big enough topic to deserve its own post.
When forms ask for sex/gender… what’s a trans woman to do?
I was recently completing forms for a doctors office. While these forms were tedious before I came out, as a trans person, they've become really tricky.
[NSFW] What’s it like to have those parts?
CONTENT WARNING: Genitals and Sensations from them. I recently happened across a post on Reddit where a Redditor asked some questions to people who have had Gender Confirming Vaginoplasty (as I have). These are my answers to her questions.
I Quit!
No, I didn't quit my job, but rather, I quit social media - specifically, Facebook and Twitter.
Be Kind to Your Burdened Self
A few weeks ago, I was having a conversation with a friend and she said something which has stuck with me ever since: "Be kind to your unhealthy self, as you are kind to your healthy self." I was gobsmacked.
Well-behaved trans people seldom make history
If your support of me is conditioned on me behaving a certain way, then thanks, but no thanks!
[NSFW] I โฅ My V
A love letter about my vulva and vagina. This is NSFW - you've been warned!
Goodbye 2019, Hello 2020!
What a year it has been for me! Looking back, I can't believe everything that's happened.