A few days ago, user "Max" replied to a comment made by Brendan Birth on my post about Q: What do I do if I’m transphobic and homophobic? / As a Christian believer, will God disown me if I transition from MTF? Max's comment makes a few claims and cites scripture. I was setting up to reply to Max in another comment, but decided this is a big enough topic to deserve its own post.
When forms ask for sex/gender… what’s a trans woman to do?
I was recently completing forms for a doctors office. While these forms were tedious before I came out, as a trans person, they've become really tricky.
[NSFW] What’s it like to have those parts?
CONTENT WARNING: Genitals and Sensations from them. I recently happened across a post on Reddit where a Redditor asked some questions to people who have had Gender Confirming Vaginoplasty (as I have). These are my answers to her questions.
I Quit!
No, I didn't quit my job, but rather, I quit social media - specifically, Facebook and Twitter.
Be Kind to Your Burdened Self
A few weeks ago, I was having a conversation with a friend and she said something which has stuck with me ever since: "Be kind to your unhealthy self, as you are kind to your healthy self." I was gobsmacked.
Well-behaved trans people seldom make history
If your support of me is conditioned on me behaving a certain way, then thanks, but no thanks!
[NSFW] I ♥ My V
A love letter about my vulva and vagina. This is NSFW - you've been warned!
Goodbye 2019, Hello 2020!
What a year it has been for me! Looking back, I can't believe everything that's happened.
Happy Holidays?
Christmas remains a struggle. I find it harder each year to find "the Christmas spirit"
Q: How hard was it the first time you wore women clothes in public and went shopping for new clothes or did you just do everything online?
I’m not sure exactly what the first time I wore women’s clothes in public really is for me — there are so many ways to look at it!